On Father’s Day, the importance of being a father

Father and daughter sillouetteThe role of fathers in the American family is changing. Fathers who live with their children are spending more time with them and taking part in a wider range of activities, according to a recent Pew Research Center analysis.

Almost all fathers who live with their children take an active role in their day-to-day lives through activities such as sharing meals, helping with homework, and playing. At the same time, Census data reflect that more fathers are single parents—in fact, 18 percent of custodial parents are fathers.

While most fathers live with their children, over one-quarter of fathers live apart.   Fathers’ living arrangements are strongly correlated with race, ethnicity and socioeconomic status. Black fathers are more than twice as likely as white fathers to live apart from at least one of their children, while Hispanic fathers fall in the middle.

The Pew study found that among fathers who never completed high school, 40 percent live apart from their children. This compares with only 7 percent of those fathers who graduated from college.

Many nonresident fathers are highly involved with their children, even though they do not live together. Others have little or no contact with their children. According to the Pew study, roughly 1 in 5 fathers who live apart from their children say they visit with them more than once a week, while 1 in 4 fathers do not see their children at all.

Involved fathers can help encourage a child’s healthy physical, emotional, and social development. Research finds that positive father involvement promotes children’s early language and cognitive development. Involved fathers also improve their children’s academic performance. Fathers also are actively involved in their children’s health care.

Here’s another bit of good news on the occasion of Father’s Day: A recent blog refers to a 2010 report by the Future of Children, which highlights that “a high proportion of all unmarried fathers say that they want to be involved in raising their child, and the mothers say they want the father’s involvement.”


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One Response to On Father’s Day, the importance of being a father

  1. Kevin Davis says:

    The current custody, child support laws and practices encourages single parent (deprived children) households because denying or restricting a non-custodial parents (e.g. fathers) access as much as possible guarantees the custodial parent can get and keep a HIGHER child support winning.

    If custody was automatic at birth, and mothers and fathers didn’t have to “fight” for it, fathers would be more involved. The Census data provided shows that fathers lose their fight 82 percent of the time. I must add that for one parent to lose 82 percent of the time to another parent defies the laws of probability. This indicates that there is something skewing the outcome against fathers’ rights.

    Also, the ugly elephant in the room is unplanned, unwanted pregnancies. Unfortunately, what we are seeing is a male’s only choice when it comes to “pro-choice;” while the woman has the legal right to assess the situation and the privilege to choose to terminate her obligations to her child. This privilege is extended furthered by the Safe Haven laws.

    People may say they want involvement but not for a reduced child support check.
    I know, because I witnessed this in DC court.

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