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The Child Support Improvement Project: Paternity
Establishment, Chapter 7
CHAPTER VII
THE ATTITUDES OF UNMARRIED PARENTS
TOWARD PATERNITY ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
While in-hospital paternity programs clearly increase the
number of voluntary acknowledgements, they are not effective with
everyone. Many unmarried parents are uninterested in
acknowledging paternity even when presented with a simplified
in-hospital procedure to do so.
To better understand the incentives and disincentives to
voluntary paternity acknowledgement, we interviewed 100 unmarried
mothers who delivered at Denver General Hospital during 1994 and
were presented with the in-hospital paternity overture. All
mothers were interviewed in the hospital following their delivery
but before their discharge. The face-to-face interview took
approximately fifteen minutes to complete and was conducted by a
trained researcher. All respondents were paid $20 for their
participation. A copy of the interview schedule we used appears
in Appendix E.
Although half of the interviewed mothers were interested
involuntarily acknowledging paternity (and signed the portion of
the acknowledgement reserved for mothers) and half were not, none
of these respondents and their partners both signed the voluntary
paternity acknowledgement form. Typically the father was not at
the hospital when the mother was presented with the paternity
option. As a result, none of these parents succeeded in
acknowledging paternity on a voluntary basis in the hospital
setting. Their interviews shed light on the obstacles to
voluntary paternity acknowledgement in an inner-city hospital.
A. Profile of the Mothers
The 100 mothers we interviewed tended to be young,
Latina,poorly educated with other children at home. A quarter of
the mothers were less than 18 years of age, another 30 percent
were 19 to 22 years old. This means that more than half (53
percent) were 22 years or younger. Despite their youth, 57
percent had other children, generally one (43 percent) or two (33
percent), most of whom were not by the same father as the new
baby born when the interview took place.
Only 11 percent of the interviewed women were White; most(60
percent) were Latina. African-American (22 percent) and Native
American (7 percent) women comprised the remainder of the
respondents. Nearly two-thirds of the women (61 percent) had less
than a high school education. Only 10 percent had any education
beyond the high school level. The remainder (29 percent) reported
that they had a high school degree. Most of the women said they
were living with parents (23 percent) or other family members (38
percent). Only 16 percent were living with the father of the
baby. Twenty percent were living alone and 4 percent were living
with friends. At delivery, 80 percent reported being unemployed
and 30 percent were receiving AFDC in connection with a prior
birth.
B. Profile of the Fathers
The male partners of the women we interviewed resembled the
mothers in many respects. An identical 61 percent were Latino.
The rest were African-American (28 percent), White (7 percent),
Native American (3 percent) or Asian (1 percent). Like the
mothers, most fathers (59 percent) had less than a high school
education and only 10 percent had completed any school beyond the
high school level. Finally, most of the fathers had other
children, usually with another woman (35 percent) or the woman we
interviewed (25 percent). Forty percent of the fathers had no
other children.
Unlike the mothers, many fathers (38 percent) were over the
age of 26; only 17 percent were below the age of 18. Mothers
reported that 32 percent of the fathers were employed full-time
and that 17 percent were employed part-time. Most of the employed
fathers were engaged in manual labor (41 percent) or service (31
percent) types of jobs. The rest were either unemployed (20
percent), incarcerated (6 percent) or disabled (1 percent).
Mothers were unsure of the employment status of 24 percent of the
fathers. Table VII-1 presents selected characteristics of the
unmarried mothers whom we interviewed and their partners.
C. Relationships Between Unmarried Mothers and Fathers
Unmarried parents reported having a variety of relationships
ranging from casual encounters to long-term arrangements that
involved financial support and cohabitation. Asked to
characterize their relationships, 20 percent said the father was
someone they had met shortly before they became pregnant. Nearly
half of the women (47 percent) reported that they had dated the
father "occasionally" when they became pregnant. One-third had
been seeing the father regularly or living together and 25
percent had other children by the same father.
Perhaps the more telling indicators of the mother's
relationship with the baby's father were whether he supported her
financially during the pregnancy and/or whether he attended the
birth. As to financial support, (which was never explicitly
defined in the survey), 41 percent reported receiving "none" and
ten percent reported receiving "very little." The other half of
the respondents reported receiving more substantial financial
support although most of these women (33 percent) characterized
it as "some" support rather than "full" support which was
reported by only 16 percent. Only 37 percent of the fathers
attended the birth; the other 63 percent did not.
Table VII-1
Selected Characteristics of Interviewed Unmarried Mothers and
Their Partners
Mothers Fathers
Race and Hispanic Origin
11% White 7%
22% African-American 28%
60% Latina 61%
7% Native American 3%
Age
23% Less than 18 17%
30% 19-22 19%
10% 23-25 26%
38% 26+ 38%
Education
61% Less than High School 59%
29% High School 27%
10% More than High School 10%
Other Children
43% No 40%
25% Yes - Together 25%
32% Yes - With another partner 35%
Living Arrangement
20% Lives alone
16% Baby's father
23% Parents
38% Other family
4% Friends
Employment Status at Birth
20% Employed full-time 32%
-- Employed part-time 17%
80% Unemployed 20%
-- Not sure 24%
-- Incarcerated 6%
-- Disabled 1%
AFDC Status at Birth
30% On AFDC at baby's birth
8% On AFDC in the past, but
not at baby's birth
62% Never on AFDC
Asked whether they expected the father of the child to help
support the child, about half of the mothers (52 percent) felt
that he would. The rest said they didn't know (31 percent) or
that he would not (18 percent). Only 12 percent of the mothers
thought that they would be married to the father of their baby in
two years time and another 18 percent thought that they would be
seeing him regularly or occasionally (6 percent). The rest either
had "no idea" (40 percent) what type of relationship they would
have with the baby's father in two years or were sure they would
have no contact (24 percent). Table VII-2 summarizes
relationships between unmarried parents interviewed in the study.
D. Reasons Given for Not Acknowledging Paternity
Even with an active, hospital-based, paternity program, many
fathers do not hear about paternity because they are not
presentwhen the paternity worker or birth registration clerk
visits. In this sample, only 11 percent of fathers were at the
hospital when the paternity worker came to the mother's room. In
89 percent of the cases, it was up to the mother to discuss the
paternity option with the father or pass on the affidavit to him.
Although none of these parents ultimately both signed the
affidavit and succeeded in acknowledging paternity, half of the
interviewed mothers signed the mother's portion of the affidavit,
and half of the mothers did not. Most of the non-signers (86
percent) said they had never talked to the father of the child
about paternity. Clearly, the mother plays an important
"gatekeeper" role in the voluntary paternity acknowledgement
process and her concerns about putting the father on the birth
certificate are important to understand.
The single most common reason for not signing cited by
mothers was having a bad relationship with the baby's father.
Fully 44 percent of mothers who did not sign said it was because
they were "not getting along" with the baby's father. The next
most commonly cited reasons had to do with concerns about the
father visiting, being a good father or gaining custody or
visitation rights. A quarter of the mothers who refused to sign
were deterred because "he'd want visits," 22 percent said they
were concerned about "custody or legal rights to the child," and
17 percent indicated that "he wouldn't be a good father."
Finally, 15 percent of the mothers said they "saw no reason" to
voluntarily acknowledge, 14 percent said the baby's father was in
Mexico or out-of-town and 10 percent indicated that the putative
father did not think he was the baby's real father. Table VII-3
presents, by frequency of mention, the reasons given by
interviewed mothers for not signing the paternity acknowledgement
form.
Table VII-2
Relationships Between Unmarried Mothers and Fathers
Percent charactrizing relationship when pregnancy occurred:
Casual, just met 20%
Occasionally see one another 47%
Date regularly or live together 33%
Percent reporting various levels of financial support during
pregnancy:
None 41%
Very little 9%
Some 33%
Full 16%
Percent reporting father attended the birth 37%
Percent reporting father interested in being on the birth
certificate 67%
Percent characterizing relationship at birth:
Living together 15%
See one another often 32%
See one another rarely 25%
No contact 25%
Phone contact 3%
Percent characterizing their anticipated
relationship with the father of the child
in two years time:
Probably married 12%
Seeing him regularly 18%
Seeing him occasionally 6%
Not seeing him at all 24%
No idea 40%
Table VII-3
Reasons Given by Mothers for Not Signing
the Paternity Acknowledgement Form
Not getting along with the father of the child 44%
Concerned about custody or visitation 25%
Doesn't see the point 15%
Father in Mexico or out of town 14%
Father doesn't want to be involved 10%
Mother married to someone else 4%
Mother doesn't know who the father is 4%
Feels it will be harder to get AFDC 4%
Doesn't want the child support agency to pursue father 2%
E. Demographic and Attitudinal Characteristics of Signers and
Non-Signers
There were no consistent differences between signers and
non-signers with respect to father's age, education level or
race. In addition, signers and non-signers differed only modestly
in their responses to a series of questions on common male and
female attitudes toward paternity. These questions did not tap
the respondents' experiences; they aimed to assess the extent to
which the respondent agreed or disagreed with certain stereotypes
about paternity.
Most women agreed that men generally don't want their name
on the birth certificate because of child support (82 percent)
and that many women are afraid of having the father on the birth
certificate because of custody and visitation concerns (58
percent). To the extent there were differences, non-signers were
more apt than signers to agree that men don't think that it
matters whether their name is on the birth certificate (31
percent versus 17 percent) and that men do not want the
responsibility of having a child (69 percent versus 48 percent).
Table VII-4 presents the reactions of mothers who signed and
failed to sign to a series of statements summarizing common
attitudes held by men and women toward the issue of paternity.
Table VII-4
Percent of Mothers Agreeing With a Variety of Statements
About Paternity, by Willingness to Sign the
Voluntary Acknowledgement Form
Table VII-4 omitted.
F. Relationship and Financial Characteristics of Signers and
Non-Signers
Perhaps more telling than the reasons mothers give for
fathers not signing are the financial and relationship
characteristics that distinguish mothers who signed the
acknowledgement form from those who refused to sign. Although
these maternal signatures did not result in voluntary paternity
acknowledgements since none of the fathers signed, a comparison
of signers versus non-signers affords us an opportunity to
explore what mothers expect of fathers and their relationships
before they will even consider putting the father on the birth
certificate.
As to relationship factors, we found that signers were
significantly more likely to report cohabitation, regular
contact, father attendance at the birth and father interest in
being on the birth certificate. Thus, two-thirds of the mothers
who were living with the father of the baby during their
pregnancies wound up signing the affidavit. At birth, signers, as
compared with non-signers, were significantly more likely to be
living with the father of the child or seeing him often. In a
similar vein, signers were significantly more likely than
non-signers to report that they expected to be married to the
father of the child or seeing him regularly in two years.
Finally, 72 percent of mothers whose partner attended the birth
wound up signing the affidavit as did 66 percent of those who
reported that their partner was interested in being on the birth
certificate (See Figure VII-1).
Financial factors also appeared to be relevant to the
mother's decision to put the father on the birth certificate.
This included father's employment status and his willingness to
provide financial support both during and after the pregnancy.
Between two-thirds and three-quarters of the woman who received
financial support from the father of the child during pregnancy
wound up signing as compared with only 15 percent of the women
who reported receiving no support. Signers were significantly
more likely to think that the father of the child would provide
financial support in the future. Asked whether they expected to
be receiving AFDC in two years time, 30 percent of signers
responded, "probably yes" as compared with 71 percent of
non-signers. Finally, while 40 percent of mothers who signed
reported that the father of the child was employed full time,
this was reported by only 20 percent of those who failed to sign
(see Table VII-6). That a man's work behavior features in a
mother's paternity decision is consistent with findings of other
researchers on the importance of employment factors indetermining
an unmarried father's marriage-ability (Sullivan, 1985; Testa and
Krogh, 1995).
Table VII-6
Financial Characteristics of Signers and
Non-Signers
Percent of Mothers Percent of Mothers
Who Sign Who Do Not Sign
Father of the child
employed full-time 44% 20%
Father of the child pro-
vided support during
mother's pregnancy:
None 15% 85%
Little 67% 33%
Some 69% 31%
Full 75% 25%
Mother expects father
of the child to provide
support after the birth 86% 28%
Mother expects to be
receiving AFDC in two
years 30% 71%
Mother is interested in a
formal child support
order 25% 19%
G. Paternal Participation
Voluntary paternity acknowledgement is clearly a form
ofpaternal participation that is strongly correlated with
thetypes of relationships never-married parents have with one
another. As Figure VII-2 shows, those who said they had
"justmet" the fatherof the child when they became pregnant and
had little or no contact with him, almost never experienced
any form of support from him. These men rarely provided any
financial support during pregnancy or attended the birth.
Studies of young African-American males (Anderson, 1989) find
that many are strongly influenced by peer groups that value
"casual" sex. This value system clearly works against assuming
responsibility for a child.
Mothers who had occasional contact and said they had
"dated the father of the child" once in a while when they
discovered they were pregnant, were significantly more likely to
have received at least some financial support during pregnancy
and to have gone through the birth with the father present.
Finally, women who reported that they had dated the father
of the child "regularly," or had lived with him when they learned
that they were pregnant, almost always received some financial
support. Half of these women were also supported during the
birth by having the father present.
Not surprisingly, fathers who provided financial support
during pregnancy tended to also attend the birth. Only 11 and 12
percent of fathers who provided "none" or a "little" support
attended the birth. Among those who provided "some" or "full"
support, the attendance rate stood at 59 and 69 percent,
respectively.
H. Reactions to Formal Child Support
Whether or not they signed the paternity acknowledgement
form, most mothers (69 percent) were uninterested in obtaining a
formal child support order. Only 22 percent said that they were
interested in such an order and 9 percent were unsure. This
differs markedly from the responses of separated and divorced
women, most of whom express intense interest in formal child
support. Naturally, we do not know whether unmarried mothers
will come to resemble separated and divorced mothers over time
and become more interested in a formal support order.
Nevertheless, these findings are consistent with those of other
researchers who have studied unmarried mothers and found many of
them to be in favor of establishing paternity but uninterested in
formal child support (Wattenburg et al, 1991; Pirog-Good and
Good, 1990; Edin, 1994).
The mothers who were most interested in obtaining a formal
child support order tended to be those who were already involved
with the child support enforcement agency with a prior child at
the time of the birth. Thus, 43 percent of mothers with an open
child support case at the time of the interview reported interest
in formal child support as compared with only 20 percent of
mothers not known to the agency (see Table VII-7).
The evidence on whether mothers avoid paternity
acknowledgement because it might jeopardize their access to AFDC
and other benefits is ambiguous. Asked directly whether this
featured in their decision not to sign the voluntary
acknowledgement form, few said that it did. For example, only 6
percent of mothers who did not sign said it was because it would
"make it harder to get AFDC." Only 3 percent claimed they didn't
want to put the father on the birth certificate because they
didn't want "the child support agency coming after him."
Contrary to other data generated in this project, the AFDC
status of mothers in the survey also appeared to have little
consistent impact on whether the father of the child heard about
the paternity option from the mother, whether the mother signed
the affidavit herself, or whether the mother was interested in a
formal child support order. Forty-three percent of interviewed
mothers on AFDC and 33 percent of mothers never on AFDC reported
that the father of the child had either met with the paternity
worker or had heard about the paternity option from her. While 41
percent of mothers who had never received AFDC signed the
paternity affidavit, it was signed by 60 percent of mothers who
were receiving AFDC when they delivered and 61 percent of mothers
who had received AFDC at some time in the past. Finally, there
was no statistically significant difference in maternal interest
in formal child support among women with and without a history of
receiving public assistance.
On the other hand, when asked to explain the reasons for
paternity disavowal among their friends, 17 percent of unmarried
mothers who signed the acknowledgement form indicated it was
because of fear of loss of benefits. In addition, substantial,
but statistically equivalent, proportions of mothers who signed
(39 percent) and did not sign (46 percent) agreed with the
statement, "women don't want fathers on the birth certificate as
the legal father of the child because they can get more benefits
on their own."
Like other researchers who have studied single mothers
(Edin, 1994), the Colorado project suggests that many
welfare-reliant mothers act strategically to maximize their
family's economic situation. Instead of a formal child support
order that might well go unpaid and/or only go to reimburse the
state for AFDC, they favor informal cash assistance or in-kind
contributions. They combine these contributions with other more
reliable benefits and income-generating strategies to help them
survive.
Unmarried men appear to face community pressures that are
consistent with these survival strategies. While they face no
pressure to marry or assume a legal child support responsibility,
they do face pressure to provide informal cash contributions,
gifts, and in-kind support when they visit (Sullivan, 1985;
Stack, 1974). Indeed it has been suggested that the payment of
formal child support might reduce a father's ability to provide
informal support that is visible to the community, and
consequently might result in more attenuated visitation among
unmarried fathers (Cleveland, 1995).
Table VII-7
Reaction of Mothers to Formal Child Support
by Paternity, IV-D and AFDC Status
Willingness to Sign the Paternity Acknowledgement Form
Percent of Mothers Signed Didn't Sign All Women
Interested in child
support 25% 19% 22%
Not interested in
support 67% 71% 69%
Not sure 8% 10% 9%
Number of cases (36) (52) (88)
IV-D Status
Percent of Open Child No Child
Mothers Support Case Support Case
Interested in child
support 43% 20%
Not Interested in
Support 43% 72%
Not sure Number of
Cases 14% 9%
Number of cases (7) (81)
AFDC Status
Percent of Mothers On AFDC On AFDC Never on
On AFDC in the Past At Birth AFDC
Interested in child
support 14% 30% 19%
Not interested in support 86% 59% 72%
Not sure -- 11% 9%
Number of cases (7) (27) (54)
I. Summary:
Even in a hospital setting with an aggressive paternity
outreach effort, mothers are typically the gatekeepers for the
paternity acknowledgement process. Since the father of the child
is often not at the hospital when the paternity worker visits the
mother's room, it is usually up to the mother to pass on
information about paternity to the father. Interviews conducted
soon after the birth of their baby with 100 unmarried mothers who
delivered at Denver General Hospital indicate that they are
willing to sign the acknowledgement form themselves only when the
relationship with the baby's father meets certain minimal
standards.
Mothers who sign are more likely to report cohabitation,
regular contact, the likelihood of marriage or a long-term
relationship, father attendance at the birth, and father interest
in being on the birth certificate. Financial factors also come
into play. Mothers who sign are significantly more likely to
report that the father of the child provided financial support
during the pregnancy and that they expect him to continue to help
out. The fathers of children whose partners sign are also more
likely to be employed on a full-time basis.
Whether or not they sign, most interviewed mothers are
uninterested in obtaining a formal child support order. Asked to
explain why unmarried mothers and fathers fail to put the
father's name on the birth certificate, most say that fathers are
deterred by child support and the responsibilities associated
with being a parent while mothers have concerns about not getting
along with the father or fear that he will seek custody or
visitation rights. The evidence on whether mothers avoid
paternity acknowledgement to protect their benefit status is
mixed. Although few say this is a personal reason for not signing
the affidavit, nearly half agree with the general statement that
women don't want fathers on the birth certificate as the legal
father of the child because they can get more benefits on their
own.
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