
Introduction
Adult caregivers such as parents, teachers, coaches, and other mentors play a critical role in shaping and supporting self-regulation development from birth through young adulthood through an interactive process called “co-regulation.”
Purpose
This snapshot summarizes key concepts about self-regulation development and intervention for middle-school aged youth for practitioners and educators interested in promoting self-regulation for this age group. It is based on a series of four reports on Self-Regulation and Toxic Stress prepared for the Administration for Children and Families (ACF). Visit the Toxic Stress and Self-Regulation Reports page for more information.
Highlights
Self-regulation skills developing in middle- school aged children:
- Completing longer and more complex tasks
- Self-monitoring
- Planning, prioritization, and time management to achieve goals
- Using strategies to manage stress
- Using health-promoting strategies to calm down when distressed
- Considering consequences before acting
- Making effective decisions “in the moment”
- Solving more complex problems independently
- Goals, behavior, and decision-making guided by empathy and concern for others
Key considerations for promoting self-regulation in middle-school aged youth:
- Encourage a positive school climate for all students
- Deliver self-regulation skills training in at-risk schools
- Train teachers and afterschool staff to teach, model, reinforce, and coach self-regulation skills
- Identify ways to support school and program staff’s own self-regulation capacity
- Provide parent education supports that address co-regulation
Citation
Murray, D.W. and Rosanbalm, K. (2017). Self-Regulation Snap Shot #4: A Focus on Middle-School Aged Youth. OPRE Report #2018-13, Washington, DC: Office of Planning, Research, and Evaluation, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Glossary
- Self-Regulation:
- The act of managing thoughts and feelings to enable goal-directed actions.
- Co-Regulation:
- The supportive process between caring adults and children, youth, or young adults that fosters self-regulation development.